Gay & Lesbian dating

Gay Dating : how to meet mature gay people in the UK

Is it possible to meet a gay or lesbian person without going through a gay dating site? With Ourtime , the answer is yes. Since everyone wants to live a real story, no matter what their preferences are, Ourtime is also a gay dating site, to allow real encounters between men, or between women.

How to start dating if you’re mature and gay

If you’ve just come out to everyone and are looking for someone special or if you’ve dated other men for years, Ourtime can help you find matches near you – ones you actually want to date, too. Today, you are twice as likely to find that special someone on the internet as in real life[1]. Some people might think that it’s a shame we don’t meet from looking at each other longingly from across the bar, but we disagree. Meeting someone and knowing that they are single (or polyamorous) and ready for something with someone really great (you), is much easier than waiting around for that cute guy to actually bother texting back. So don’t hesitate to sign up to Ourtime and let’s get the romance started!

Register for free, it’s easy we promise. All you need is to enter your name, answer a few questions about your interests and tell us what kind of guy you’re looking for. Choose a recent photograph or two of you smiling and being your beautiful self. Craft a short and genuine description of yourself — and that’s it. You’re now free to browse through the single profiles we selected for you and get ready to share the love on our app or our site! Spotted someone cute? Polish your conversations starters and dive in the instant online dating chat. Take time to discover your potential matches more in depth. You may find a special date right there for you! And do not worry about fakers. Ourtime’s top priority is to verify each profile and make sure they’re real. Last but not least, your personal data remains confidential and you decide what information you want to share with whom.

Gay senior dating isn’t just about online love and messages behind your screen. Eventually, you also have to meet in person.

[1] Source: Kantar TNS 2017

Online dating as a mature lesbian

Using an online dating site as a mature lesbian can be great! With so many profiles to look at and so little time, you can use our filters to find a person who really suits you. After 50, we all still expect love to make you dream, light your fire and make you feel alive, but you also know that what really matters is what you share. Your shared interests, your similar experiences, your same outlook on life: this is what it takes to ignite your fire! What brings you together is the first shared memory or experience that will form the basis of your future relationship. From there, you can build everything else: shared moments, intimacy and love.

As much as fantasies are fun, it’s important that you remember the illusion of a perfect sapphic love isn’t without challenges. Other mature dating apps might claim to be able to find you someone ‘ideal’ to date, but it’s not secret we are all working on ourselves still (hopefully).

Here at Ourtime, we prepare a customised selection of detailed and compatible profiles of mature single lesbians just for you that matches your criteria. We can offer all the people we think would be a great match for you, then the rest is up to you. When you find someone you’d like to get to know better, it’s time to go on a real date. Luckily for you, we have a few quick tips for a magical first date with a lovely lady:

• Do an activity together
• Try not to put too much pressure on yourself (or the date)
• Prepare a little

If that’s not enough, Ourtime organises locally a wide array of themed activities and events throughout the UK where you can meet other members. If you don’t have an official date, don’t worry! Going out is also a great opportunity for you to meet your sweetheart amongst single mature lesbians! Love can be found anywhere, at a restaurant table, in an art house or on a yoga mat!

Coming out and getting online

If you’ve recently come out, dating isn’t always your first priority. But if you’re ready as a queer person to put yourself out there, Ourtime is happy to help our mature LGBTQ+ people find someone really special – after all, it’s what you deserve!

Being older and coming out as gender non-conforming or transgender is scary enough, so let us do the heavy lifting. Our online dating site for seniors is here for everyone and we can send over profiles of people who we think would suit you best.

Looking for something specific in a partner? Just use our filters to get to the nitty-gritty of what’s important to you and you’ll only get offered the profiles of people who fit your criteria. Ourtime is also committed to being a judgement-free safe space for everyone to date. Unfortunately, transphobia is still a reality for lots of people and if you experience transphobia on our app or site, just use our report button to it to us and we will make sure that it doesn’t happen to anyone else.