That’s why we specialise in bringing together singles over 50 – unlike other generic dating sites. That means there’s thousands of eligible and likeminded single men on Ourtime, actively seeking women dating like you to chat to, meet and date!

Why is mature dating for women on Ourtime different to other dating sites?

We believe that no matter your age, you deserve to find that special person you’re looking for. And unlike other dating sites, we know that when it comes to women mature dating, your personal relationship goals are even more important and unique. That’s why at Ourtime we:

  • Specialise in exclusively connecting singles over 50 looking for love
  • Feature like-minded members
  • Set up events & activities to meet other singles looking for love in person
  • Offer expert and helpful older dating advice – whatever your question!
  • Use our insightful profile questionnaire to help you chat to, meet and date the people you’re looking for

At Ourtime, we think that if you’re looking for a mature relationship, you shouldn’t have to trawl through, or be unpleasantly surprised by, hundreds of simply unsuitable profiles, like on other dating sites. That’s why our single members are all looking for mature relationships, and we verify member profiles.

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How to find your next date on Ourtime

With many singles senior dating right now on Ourtime, you are in the right place to start searching now for your next chat, date and beyond!
Here are our top 5 tips for women mature dating, to set you off on the right track:

  1. Upload a variety of flattering pictures

A picture paints a thousand words, and in online dating they’re worth even more! Recruit a friend to take a portrait for you and include a full-body shot too. Your pictures need to honestly show what you look like, and ideally something to give your suitors something to easily ask you about – like a hobby or pet, not an ex-partner!

  1. Write a concise & intriguing bio

Let the singles out there know a little more about your best qualities and what you love. Tell your potential dates what your favourite movie or cuisine is – focus on what’s best and most interesting about you. Keep it concise, so they’ll be curious to learn more about you.

  1. Don’t be afraid to reach out

We all know it takes two to tango! Someone’s got to make the first move, and for women mature dating, it’s absolutely acceptable and encouraged for you to take the initiative and start messaging the singles out there whose profiles catch your eye.

  1. Ask lots of questions and be open

It might have been quite some time ago you last dated, but don’t forget the basics – if in doubt, ask another question! You find out most about people by asking revealing questions and listening carefully to their answers. For example: ask your date what they do/did for a living, find out if they enjoy it, discover how they got into their career etc. Don’t forget they’ll also want to know about you, so be revealing, not vague, in your own responses.

  1. Start dating, but don’t be in a rush!

Once you’ve exchanged a few messages (4 or 5) with one of the single men – or women – who caught your attention, it’s time to organise your first date! Don’t wait longer than a week or two to set up your first meeting; you need to confirm that there’s real life chemistry that’s worth pursuing, before you put loads of your valuable time and effort into getting to know them better.

Here at Ourtime we’ve got experts to advise and support you – from the moment you set up your profile to your first dates and beyond. So, what have you got to lose? Join Ourtime today!